Sunday, November 30, 2014

Thanksgiving Weekend 2014

Ah, what a great, long weekend we had. 
I love Thanksgiving. 
I love that there is no pressure and about 95% less work than Christmas. 
I love that the focus is on family and food and thankfulness. 
And no gifts. 

When my mom died I vowed to never sit around a traditional Thanksgiving table again. 
Well that lasted one year...
I knew this would be difficult. 
Nick and I took the reigns and took over mom's spot of hosting and cooking. 
I think she would have been proud. 
I think she'd have liked to have been sitting in the kitchen just watching and listening as Nick and I attempted to create Thanksgiving the way she did. 

Things worked out perfectly and Tess and Tori were at Grandma Cindy's all morning and Jordan took the three older kids to volunteer at the Thanksgiving meal that the community serves. 

So it was just Nick and I. 
I started by giving him this gift that I had found the week before while cleaning and prepping for Thursday: 
My mom's worn and tattered 'Thanksgiving prep' cards. 
We loved looking at these together and shed some tears at the amazement that was our mom. 
We were hosting 12...she hosted 35-45 people each year. 
Having these cards made us feel like she was there in a little way. 
And I'm so thankful that I found them when I did. 
(my God is awesome)


Nick went with a fresh turkey this year. 
He sent me a picture on Tuesday of our lucky lady in her brine bath. 

Our house was involved in prep work all week too. 
Lauren and Avery were in charge of Grandma's famous punch. 
They smelled it and said, 'Mom! this smells like Christmas, and grandma.' 
Yeah, that was pretty awesome. 

Having kids old enough to help with all the cutting and dicing is nothing short of WONDERFUL!

We also got out Grandma Elaine's silverware and dishes. 

Lauren made these for everyone. 

Nick and I getting ready to start the serious work.
Mom would have been proud of our multiple lists and our aprons.


Nick felt we needed beets as part of our meal. 
Even though he brought the 'money beets' they were not well received. 

We drew names for who sat at the kids table. 
It was only slightly rigged. 

 It took Uncle Jordan awhile longer than anyone else to finish his plate. 

That night we snuggled up and watched a movie and then decided that next year we'll just wear our pjs to the Thanksgiving meal so we can head straight to bed after eating. 

Friday Stacie and the girls and I did a little shopping in Grundy and then I headed to the 'city' to shop with my 4 girls. I was not looking forward to it...we went because our microwave died the day before. 
But we ended up having the best time. 
I have a feeling that I'll spend many Black Friday's with these 4 girls of mine! 


Friday night Mandy and Amy came over and we did actual Black Friday shopping in the best way possible...online, in our comfiest clothes with blankets. 
We were at it til Friday became Saturday. 

Saturday we got down to some serious Christmas decorating. 
I love having little ones in my house and realized that those years are dwindling fast...I hope I never forget Tess and Tori's little voices excitedly looking through boxes of ornaments and decorations. 
Lauren headed out for a day with Grandma Cindy and Jordan took the younger three to see Home Alone at our theater...so that left Avery and I to get the tree up to be ready for decorating that night. 
We were tired when we were done! 

Once we were all back together late that afternoon we went up town to the Christmas celebration. 
We rode the horse drawn trolley and saw Santa. 

Then it was time for homemade pizza and tree trimming. 

Today after church it was time to start prepping for Thanksgiving with Jordan's side of the family. 
9 kids 13 and under makes this Thanksgiving loud and full of memories. 
It was such a nice evening even though I only took one picture...
but it was sure a cute one...shh, Adrian is one of my favorites! 

Monday, November 24, 2014

15th party

Jordan and I celebrated 15 years of marriage and 20 years together this November. 
Weeks ago we started talking about how we wanted to celebrate. 
Somehow my husband came up with the idea of letting me throw a Gatsby Party!
I can't tell you how happy I was. 
He's pretty much, THE BEST. 

I had a blast planning and preparing for it with my friends. 
And I had the most fun shopping with Jordan for our costumes. 

After 15 years he is still the most fun person for me to be with. 
He makes me laugh more than anyone and makes me feel loved and beautiful every single day.
We work hard on our marriage...we dont have any answers...but we know God is key.
And we know that by His Grace alone we are happier now than we were the day we said, 'I do'.
And that right there is something to celebrate! 

I have a lot more to say about him and our life but for now...fun party pics of the best night! 

My friends and I had a blast decorating.
I have creative and awesome friends. 


The photo booth was ... THE. BEST. 

My very creative and pregnant friend Holly, whipped up these beauties. 

And my most hysterical and slightly mean friend Melanie did this. 


Talented friends folks. 
That's what I've got.
Thank you Mandy! 

Are you kidding with how beautiful this is?!

Get your Gatsby on! 


This man...what can I say? 
He's mine. 

He's super fun. 

And he puts up with my crazy. 

Somehow we ended up doing a traditional cake cutting. 
Uh, funny.


We were pretty nice...


Nick and Stacie were sweet enough to come. 
And Nick even dressed up! 
(Stacie had a wardrobe malfunction.)

And my baby brother, Jordan came.
Dressed up and all!

And Jordan's sisters, Trina and Kylie. 

Most of the men avoided the photo booth. 
But Andrea got Brad in there! 


Then the girls started having fun with the props. 

Ode to the UNI days! 
Roomies!


Another one of Melanie's funny ideas! 

Mandy, me, Jenn and Lynn

LOVE.

So many of our friends came out to celebrate with us. 
It was the most fun and special night. 
We will never forget it. 

I could post about 75 of these pictures. 
And I love each one for different reasons. 
Kind of like the girls in this picture. 
I cant even...they are...nope, I just cant. 



A few more pics...

Monday, November 17, 2014

13th Birthday Celebration!!!!

We had the most fun celebrating Lauren on Saturday! 
We woke her in our traditional 'Dirks' fashion. 
Singing to wake her up and a tower of donuts.

I had giant pictures of her as a little girl printed and hung around the house. 
She was 4 here...how did that go so fast? 

Weeks and weeks ago Lauren requested taking some friends 
to an Iowa State volleyball game to celebrate her big day. 
Easy enough. 
However then she also talked me into it being a sleepover. 
If you think boys are loud, I am going to tell you...you've 
never had this many 13 year old girls over take your house. 

I'll let you guess who the 'instigator of the wildness' is. 

We experienced our first snow storm of the year just about right when we were ready to leave. 
But we made it to the game. 
I had never been to a collegiate volleyball game before. 
Wow, these girls are good. 
And, tall!



Everyone had a great time. 

And someone's antics even got them on the jumbotron! 

The Cyclones pulled of a victory! 


 Dad and his two oldest. 

 Grandma kept the other kids for us. 
So much fun for Jordan and I too! 

When we finally made it back home - horrible roads. 
It was time for pizza and craziness. 

They said they went to bed at 4. 
This was how I found them 15 minutes before parents were going to arrive to take them home. 
Adorable. 
These same girls stayed with us on Lauren's 8th birthday...that night they requested that Jordan and I watch a movie with them all...they didnt do that this time. :(